Stop invalidating my trauma
Professlioanls who have willfully participated in mental abuse including the following: reactive abuse, gaslighting abuse, scapegoating abuse, name calling, using metaphors about my traumatic experience to deliberately humiliate severe harms, and bullying me. Human rights violations including stigma, structural stigma, retaliation, and power harassment. Privacy violations including sharing any information about my case about how I was abused and thrown away like a bag of trash because I requested to be treated with dignity, integrity and respect. And any speculation about what occurred including your own personal and not at all professional feelings, thoughts, perceptions about any things relating to the case. You have made the willful decision to participate in these acts of harmful behavior towards me as an actual human being. Your unethical behaviors have hurt my feelings severely, caused mistrust and I feel violated as a student. These are my feelings and the consequences caused by your bad decisions.
You must understand that when you harm someone you don't get to decide that you did not do it because you don't like how the accountability of your own decisions to lack dignity, integrity and respect for me as a person has made you feel or look. Sit with your own discomfort and get help for yourself to ensure you can develop some empathy and humanity for other human beings opposed to sitting remorseless and trying to invalidate the harms.
This dynamic is similar to toxic masculinity where you must understand that your bad behaviors have caused harm. If you are not mentally capable of doing so get yourself help for your own personal issues. I don't want your bad choices, the harm it caused and the invalidation which is harmful to ensure you don't have to feel any guilt.
I feel incredibly disrespected and uncomfortable as a victim having my experience and trauma invalidated. You caused harm from your bad behaviors, and you don't get to sit back remorseless while i suffer and you invalidate the severe amount of harm so you can feel better about yourselves.
Leave me alone and stop communicating to me through third parties to harass me by invalidating my severe trauma you have all collectively forced me to endure due to your own lack of humanity for me as an actual human being. I do not want the pressure of your lack of accountability, complete refusal to have remorse, refusal to provide an apology, and the ongoing invalidation.
I am setting the following boundaries with any and all professionals but especially those in leadership positions who allow the lack of dignity, integrity, and respect towards me as a human being while not holding it accountable:
Stop communicating with me about this case completely. I am extremely done with the ongoing relentless comments about this extremely traumatic case. I DONT want your opinions, speculations, and comments. The trauma is fresh, and I am suffering.
Stop invalidating the harms. I feel extremely disrespected. None of you have endured the severe harms of this case so don't sit back invalidating the severe harms i have been forced to endure alone and not supported while most of you do not offer any form of care, condolences, or support for the harms.
Stop viewing me as a disposable punching bag for yourselves and each other to gossip about, speculate about, make fun of, humiliate, shame, and blame. None of my needs are met and i am grieving and traumatized. I do not have appropriate support I need to reach my full potential so please have dignity, integrity, and respect for my current life circumstances. I feel incredibly disrespected by the gossip, speculation, comments, and stigma while I am forced to endure it in my circumstances.
Again STOP!!!!! I could not feel anymore disrespected by the relentless comments and speculation about my case.
Take yourselves out of the problem and see it fresh. SMU chucked me away like a bag of trash while i was left with no basic needs or income whole grieving and traumatized without support. No need to constantly comment on what you think about the case. You have not lived through this harmful experience.
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